The purpose of having a guru or teacher in your life is only to assist you along your path. This guru-student relationship is a vital stepping stone along your path. The function of relationships is to get you back to a state of wholeness and completion, not with the other but in spite of the other. The teachers are there to assist you in your “self” discovery. When the function of that transformation takes place the relationship has served its purpose. Not all relationships are lifetime purposed.
Release the relationship forms in Love. Allow the form to change and be that which now serves a higher purpose. All relationships changes in form and purpose. You are here to learn your lessons from these spiritual guides and move forward. You need to remember that you are provided the opportunity to learn lessons in your life. The emotions arise are sitting on your lap ready for healing. The flow from the depth of your soul is rich with blessings.
To truly take the next step in separating who you think you are from who you really I strongly recommend breathwork. Breathwork has the ability to cross between the conscious mind and the unconscious. The strongest Breathwork available is BlissBreath.
You can try it for yourself.